Love is always pure. Isn’t it one of the most beautiful times in life when you wake up with a smile and say thank you god for this day full of love? Thanks for giving the special someone in my life. And if you are one of those chosen few who is loved by the special someone in the same way, isn’t it an icing on the cake? Trust me very few of them are lucky enough to get that.
But do we understand the worth of loved one till the time he/ she leaves you? These days’ proposals and commitments are nothing but just a game. Obviously exceptions do exist and all my due respect to those exceptional cases. If a guy proposes somebody and if the girl accepts it the guy is believed to have w
on the game. After which the girl may get serious about him but for the guy it is just another passing cloud. On the other hand if the girl says no to him the guy would keep chasing her till the time she says yes. The above two situations are certainly not gender specific so guys cheer up!!!
Insecurity today is used as a tool to win over people. Guys and girls make each other feel insecure just to prove how superior they are over the other. A girl feels proud when the guy feels insecure about her and vice versa. Funny isn’t it? A simple question to be answered here is how long you would want to make someone feel insecure about each other. There was a time when relationship meant security. A guy and a girl came together because they felt secure in each other’s company or they completed each other. This sense of security when increases, smoothens the relationship further and makes their bond stronger. In short the relationship blossoms.
I think I have given enough of gyan on certain aspects of relationship. Trust me experience teaches you a lot of things. At times it really makes me wonder why relationship is getting more and more complicated. Why cannot people just be happy with what they have?
But do we understand the worth of loved one till the time he/ she leaves you? These days’ proposals and commitments are nothing but just a game. Obviously exceptions do exist and all my due respect to those exceptional cases. If a guy proposes somebody and if the girl accepts it the guy is believed to have w
on the game. After which the girl may get serious about him but for the guy it is just another passing cloud. On the other hand if the girl says no to him the guy would keep chasing her till the time she says yes. The above two situations are certainly not gender specific so guys cheer up!!!Insecurity today is used as a tool to win over people. Guys and girls make each other feel insecure just to prove how superior they are over the other. A girl feels proud when the guy feels insecure about her and vice versa. Funny isn’t it? A simple question to be answered here is how long you would want to make someone feel insecure about each other. There was a time when relationship meant security. A guy and a girl came together because they felt secure in each other’s company or they completed each other. This sense of security when increases, smoothens the relationship further and makes their bond stronger. In short the relationship blossoms.
I think I have given enough of gyan on certain aspects of relationship. Trust me experience teaches you a lot of things. At times it really makes me wonder why relationship is getting more and more complicated. Why cannot people just be happy with what they have?
I hope this quote helps a bit :
ReplyDeleteOnce you must fall in love with your best friend, ruining your friendship forever. This will teach you who your true friends are, and the fine line between friendship and more.
Once you must fall in love with someone you believe to be perfect. You will learn that no one is perfect, and that you should never be treated as any less than you deserve.
And once you must fall in love with someone that is exactly like you. This will teach you about who you are, and who you want to be.
And when you're through with all that, you learn that the people who care about you the most are the ones that you hurt, and the ones that hurt you are the ones that you needed the most.
But most of all, you learn that love is only a concept and is not something that can be defined, it is different to each person that experiences it. And you will learn to respect each and every person on this earth, knowing that everyone only wants to be loved.
P.S : Been waiting for your blog posts in 2012... do try to put up some memorable experiences.